😏 Why Overworking Isn’t Love: Rethinking Sacrifice


You work hard because you love your kids. You want to give them the best—nice clothes, activities, vacations, all the things they get excited about. But let’s be real: do they really need more stuff, or do they just need more of you?

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This weekend, my husband was out of town for work, so it was just me and the girls. I could have used the time to catch up on emails or tackle my never-ending to-do list. But instead, I chose to be with them. Friday night, I surprised them with tickets to a dine-in movie theater, and we saw Dog Man. We ordered some good food, and we giggled our way through the entire film. On Saturday, we grabbed some pizza, curled up on the couch to watch the new Henry Danger movie, and later, I set up a little spa night—painting their nails, putting on face masks, and lounging in bed, laughing at the silly way our faces looked.

It wasn’t extravagant. It wasn’t expensive. But it was everything to them.

It’s easy to fall into the mindset that working more means providing more. But at what cost? Your kids may enjoy the things you buy, but what they’ll remember are the nights you spent just being with them—fully present, fully engaged.

So this week, I challenge you: don’t fill your extra time with more work. Fill it with more moments. Choose connection over busyness. Because those simple, ordinary nights? They’re the ones that turn into lifelong memories.

What’s one way you can be more present with your kids this week? Hit reply—I’d love to hear.

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With Love,

KISm Parenting Solutions

I am a parent coach who supports and guides exhausted and overwhelmed working parents becoming successful in both their careers and parenting, while fostering connection and harmony in their homes. I am dedicated to providing practical solutions and strategies that empower parents to regain control over their time and create a calm and stress free environment, even in the face of challenges. Through personalized time management systems and nurturing support, I help parents achieve a sense of balance, enabling them to arrive at work on time and cultivate a deep sense of inner strength and well-being. Together, we will navigate the journey towards a family that works together, where connection and efficiency coexist, allowing both parents and children to thrive.

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