Case Study: A working mom who stopped saying yes to everything


When Michelle first came to me, she was doing everything—and not in a “superwoman” kind of way.

She was:

  • Overcommitted at work because she didn’t want to seem ungrateful
  • Taking on 90% of household tasks even though both she and her husband worked
  • Volunteering for every PTA, potluck, and spirit day
  • Exhausted, short-tempered, and quietly losing herself

Sound familiar?

Michelle wasn’t thriving.
She was drowning—behind a smile.


Here’s what changed:

She didn’t quit her job.
She didn’t “lean out.”

She started saying no without guilt.
And no, it didn’t ruin her career.

It helped her show up with more clarity, energy, and confidence.

We worked on a few boundary shifts that you can steal today:


Boundary Scripts You Can Use Right Now

At work:

“I’d love to support this. Can you help me reprioritize what’s already on my plate to make space?”

With your partner:

“I’m carrying a lot of invisible load right now. I need us to rebalance a few things so I’m not running on fumes.”

With school or extended family:

“I’m focusing on protecting my evenings and energy this season, so I’ll have to pass—but I hope it’s amazing.”

These aren’t confrontational.
They’re clear, kind, and rooted in respect—for others and for yourself.

Boundaries don’t make you difficult.
They make you sustainable.

Michelle didn’t lose herself because of motherhood or career.
She almost lost herself because she never felt like she could say no.

Until she did.
And that changed everything.

P.S. Want more scripts like these? Hit reply and let me know.

I'm thinking about creating a free download called The Boundary Script Bank—a collection of ready-to-use scripts for work, home, family, and everything in between.

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KISm Parenting Solutions

I am a parent coach who supports and guides exhausted and overwhelmed working parents becoming successful in both their careers and parenting, while fostering connection and harmony in their homes. I am dedicated to providing practical solutions and strategies that empower parents to regain control over their time and create a calm and stress free environment, even in the face of challenges. Through personalized time management systems and nurturing support, I help parents achieve a sense of balance, enabling them to arrive at work on time and cultivate a deep sense of inner strength and well-being. Together, we will navigate the journey towards a family that works together, where connection and efficiency coexist, allowing both parents and children to thrive.

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