The habit that changed my evenings (and my mood)


Behind the Scenes: The Habit That Changed My Evenings (and My Mood)

Most nights, by the time I finally get a second alone, I’m done.
Mentally tired. Emotionally tapped. Touched out.

And for a while, I’d just crash-scroll on my phone until bed—still wired, not rested.
Journaling? Yoga? A long tea ritual? Too much.

Then I started doing this one small thing that genuinely shifted how I end my day:

🚿 I started using shower steamers.

That’s it.
No life overhaul. Just a simple upgrade to the one thing I was already doing—my nightly shower.

The warm steam, the scent (lavender, eucalyptus, whatever I’m in the mood for), the closed door…
It turned ten rushed minutes into a mini spa.
A tiny slice of peace that felt like it was just for me.

And hey when I am feeling extra fancy... I'll go and light a candle...

Want to try it? These are my go-to steamers →
👉 My favorite shower steamers on Amazon(affiliate or not, up to you!)

Some nights it’s still quick—but now it feels intentional.
Like I’m closing the day, not just surviving it.

So here’s my question for you:
What’s one everyday thing you could elevate just a little—so it feels like yours again?

This isn’t about doing more. It’s about making what you already do feel better.

With you,

KISm Parenting Solutions

I am a parent coach who supports and guides exhausted and overwhelmed working parents becoming successful in both their careers and parenting, while fostering connection and harmony in their homes. I am dedicated to providing practical solutions and strategies that empower parents to regain control over their time and create a calm and stress free environment, even in the face of challenges. Through personalized time management systems and nurturing support, I help parents achieve a sense of balance, enabling them to arrive at work on time and cultivate a deep sense of inner strength and well-being. Together, we will navigate the journey towards a family that works together, where connection and efficiency coexist, allowing both parents and children to thrive.

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